Self Evaluation

This passed week I was forced to really exam myself on a level I never thought was necessary before. IV always felt like a good Loyal, trustworthy and sincere person, that never hurts anyone (which most people think about themselves). I had to do some SELF EVALUATION. Have you ever stop to think about the way You may talk to people when frustrated or passionate about something? Do you think about how you communicate when lots of emotion is involved? Do you get brash (self-assertive in a rude, loud or overbearing way)? Are you quick to always be right? Are you super aggressive to the point where you may be viewed as abusive in speech. In James 1:19 (AMP) he talks about being quick to hear( being a ready listener) slow to speak and slow to take offense and get angry. Most people are not really good listeners, we form opinions of what we think people are saying (or what we think they really want to say) without hearing what they are really saying. We then take offense and out hurt get angry and speak out fast with a bunch of emotions. The problem with emotions, is that they change, but the scars they leave don't leave so easy. I understand we are all human, but that doesn't excuse negative speech. If we start being more mindful, by SELF EVALUATING and start TRUELY listening more and really understanding the message being delivered. Misunderstanding and hurt feelings wouldn't be so common. We ruin great partnerships and relationships with being so quick to speak without hearing. Take a SELF EVALUATION and see if your really listening or talking. Are you always right? Do you think about the other persons feelings when you speak? Being Right doesn't always mean your being affective. All these are to be considered while communicating with others. You never know how many people feel abused or misunderstood by you. SELF EVALUATION is a must. Know one is perfect and right all the time. Misunderstandings happen everyday and its up to you to EVALUATE how you listen and respond. Our responses should always be from a position of LOVE and not with a spirit of offense. LOVE never offends but protects and brings comfort. LOVE wants to give peace and joy. SELF EVALUATE AND WATCH GOD WORK WONDERS IN YOUR RELATIONSHIPS...!!!! Be Blessed my friends and stay tuned for my next GOD inspired blog of the day.

MEN

Man's soul design was to LEAD (give direction) and to have DOMINION (AUTHORITY) in the earth. Attributes of GOD (HIS Image and Likeness). On a previous blog, I talked about being broken bread and poured out wine, which became necessary, due to the sin committed in the garden of Eden. Since the beginning man has been challenged with walking in the IMAGE and LIKENESS of GOD. If no one has ever told you about the ransom that was paid IN THE BLOOD OF JESUS or you HAVE just chosen not to BELIEVE... You need to know that the BLOOD OF JESUS HAS GIVEN us back our TRUE IMAGE AND LIKENESS. You might be asking yourself what does all this mean? GODS IMAGE AND LIKENESS. LEADING and having DOMINION. Well let’s start in the order GOD spoke it. In HIS IMAGE and LIKENESS means That God has given man INTELLECT (the ability to learn and understand) FREE WILL (the ability to choose between one action and another) SELF-DETERMINATION (determining our own lives) and SPIRIT (GODS BREATH) which is HIS SPIRIT. MEN we will never be satisfied with the world’s way of doing things. That's why most men have an unquenchable thirst for multiple women. There really thirsting for that belonging that only comes by and through the WORD OF GOD. MAN will always have a hunger for the things of GOD that's why (Matt.4:4) talks about not being satisfied with just natural food but to feed our SPIRIT MAN. We have GODS Nature inside of us. This ultimately allows us to know, Love and commune with HIM and others. So now that we understand HIS IMAGE AND LIKENESS. To LEAD and DOMINATE (having authority over) was HIS next command. Hebrews 2:7 says that MAN was ranked lower and inferior to the Angels; but was crowned with GLORY (a state of great gratification or exaltation) and honor (worth being respected). He was given charge OVER EVERY WORK OF GOD HAND. GOD placed EVERYTHING UNDER OUR FEET. No wonder HE made us a helpmate...lol. That's a lot of responsibility for MAN. Ok, so now that we understand what HE commanded of us. Why did HE give us so GREAT of a responsibility in Earth? That purpose was so that we would represent the rule and reign of GOD to establish HIS Plan and Purpose, and to manifest HIS GLORY (majesty). HIS LIKENESS AND IMAGE. Most MEN have not accepted their true calling to rule and reign in the earth by dominating what GOD has given them to ruler over (their talents). We are too busy trying to rule each other which was not on the list that was to be ruled by MAN. The Bible said to follow me as I follow Christ. Another example was the parable of the Talents (Matt.25:14-30) when the man entrusted his servants with his property. One he gave 5 another 2 and another 1. Each one he gave according to their ability. When he returned the one he gave 5 and 2 they doubled it, and he was very pleased and gave them more. But the one he gave the 1 to had the same 1 he gave him when he left. The master called him wicked and slothful and took the one from him and gave to the one that had the most. Why did he call him wicked and slothful? Wicked originates from the word wicker which meant to twist (candle wick). The twisted definition of wicked was formed from an easier word meaning weak. Slothful was considered a condition; not liking to work. So the master was calling this man weak and lazy for not taking authority and walking in GODS IMAGE AND LIKENESS. This was such a serious crime that he casted him into the outer darkness. How many of you MEN feel like you’re in outer darkness, lost with no purpose? If I'm talking to you, you need to asked GOD to forgive you and to enlighten your eyes of understanding on how to walk in HIS IMAGE AND LIKENESS and to figure out what business is inside of you that your suppose to be DOMINATING AND LEADING others to recognize. Men we have been in trusted with the awesome job and responsibility of being like our FATHER. Let’s take our rightful places and subdue (rule or reign) the Earth and be FRUITFUL (producing good or helpful results; productive). And stop sitting around abusing and mishandling your mate because you have lost your LIKENESS AND IMAGE GOD said was so and that JESUS gave HIS BLOOD for. I'm up for the task, are YOU? Be BLESSED my friends and stay tuned to my next GOD inspired blog of the day...!!!

Women

PUSH I read a post the other day that has made me think about the importance of women in the life of a MAN. Why did GOD create Adam a helpmate (Eve)? What was her true purpose in his life? Why did GOD say it wasn't good for him to be alone? The amplified said it’s not sufficient, satisfactory that man be alone. This leaves the implication that he was lacking something without a woman. Well let’s see what HE said about the woman. Gen.2:18 (AMP) says that the women would be Suitable, Adapted and Complementary. Taking a closer look at the meanings of these words, Suitable being the first word means, Right or appropriate for a particular person, purpose or situation. Next word is Adapted, meaning suitable for a new or purpose; or becoming adjusted to new conditions. Last but not least Complementary, which means combining two or more different things in such a way as to enhance or emphasize each other’s qualities. So is it safe to say that GOD created men that have Goals, Plans and Dreams with a need for a Woman? I would dare to say yes! My rationale is based on the Word of God and also the feeling you have as a man when you have a woman that has Faith in your dreams and vision. No matter who else doesn't Believe, as long as she does, you feel as if you could rule the world, but if she doesn't you don’t feel as confident and start to second guess your vision. A woman’s support will change a man’s reality from impossible to possible, from maybe to definitely! Women, never underestimate your power and perspective you have in relationship with your man. You are a force that GOD said was Right, Appropriate, Suitable, and able to adjust to new conditions. HE also said you would enhance and emphasize the quality of your Man. That's a heck of a responsibility and privilege at the same time, knowing your significance in the life of your man! You are partners in the vision. So HIS DREAM now becomes YOUR VISION. Beside every great man of faith and vision is a WOMAN PUSHING. In a sense, it’s the woman’s job to make sure her man reaches his purpose. So ladies anytime your man acts like or even says he doesn't need you or that he can do this without you. Remind him of your GOD given Purpose and continue PUSHING him to GREATNESS...!!!! Be BLESSED my friends and stay to tuned to my next GOD inspired blog of the day.

Believing the vision

VISION and the Reality of that VISION (MANIFESTATION) our on opposites sides of each other. When GOD gives us VISION HE never shows us the road we must travel to get there. We never see the frustrations, the pain and the misunderstandings You may encounter with others. When VISION is first realized its exciting and some times very overwhelming. The thoughts of what you will have and what you will be will consume your dreams and thoughts. Life becomes so great and everyday is filled with such warm feelings and great expectations. Then over time the reality of our ups and downs and circumstances that may not allow you to do things you would like to do, starts to frustrate and kill the enthusiasm you once had about the VISION GOD once showed you. Kind of like relationships. When you first meet a person everything is to good to be true, nothing that a person does changes your thoughts of your future with them because you believe in each others plan and VISION for your life. Then those up's and down's start to happen and the enthusiasm of the relationship starts to waver or be strained. The VISION you once had in that relationship is Eventually lost, forgotten or second guessed. That my friends is right where the advisory wants you. Back to the trying to do things ourselves instead of TRUSTING the VISION. Those are the times we need to get into The Lord Presence to strengthen us to remain faithful to the VISION that we first believed . When we give in to desperation we open the door for something else to stop us or slow us down from GODS intended Purpose. Know one said getting to purpose (VISION) would be a easy transition. When your purpose (VISION) driven you always have the temptation to focus more on temporary struggles of the journey than you do to the ONE (GOD) THAT GAVE YOU THE VISION. Remember if HE GAVE YOU THE VISION, THE PROVISION WILL FOLLOW. You must have FAITH to see the VISION through. If not you will never have what GOD said you could have. The bible says though the VISION TARRIES TO WAIT ON IT (Hab. 2:3) The VISION WON'T DISAPPOINT YOU... ONLY BELIEVE....!!!!! Be inspired my friends and stay tuned to my next inspired blog of the day..!!!

Do you Know Your Purpose?

(Prov. 19:21) Many are the plans in a mans heart but GOD's PURPOSE shall prevail. God designed us with a certain PURPOSE, we may not know or like it, but it doesn't change what we where designed to do. GOD might allow different situation and circumstances to come in to our life that may change what our PURPOSE looks like , but HE will never change our PURPOSE. PUROPSE is so serious that Jesus Dried up a fig tree for not producing fruit (its intended PURPOSE) Our true PURPOSE is what gives us meaning. Your vocation or occupation is most likely not your PURPOSE but may be the vehicle GOD uses to get you there. So don't be so consumed with your jobs that you miss PURPOSE.  Our LORD AND SAVIOR (Jesus Christ) profession was a carpenter, but that wasn't HIS PURPOSE. With out PURPOSE we are reckless and lifeless. That's why men/women have such a hard time fulfilling PURPOSE. The absence of fathers has crippled the human race. One of the jobs of Fathers is to impart PURPOSE; which gives direction in the lives of there children. So what do you do when your natural father never spoke PURPOSE into your life? You must communicate with your HEAVENLY FATHER (your creator). This is done by being mature enough to except HIS SON JESUSE as your LORD AND SAVIOR. then learn to yield to HIM (HIS VOICE), and let HIS HOLY SPIRIT speak PURPOSE (vision) in you. Many people our busy doing all kinds of things that may or may not be self fulfilling, but are not aligned with PURPOSE. Remember no matter how much we resist or fight to go another rout our PURPOSE never changes. Dont forget the story of Jonah (Jonah 1:2) Jonah ran as long as he could from PURPOSE (his true design), but at the end of the day his PURPOSE never changed. He just went through unnecessary turmoil for not following GODS plan for his life.  How many of you are in self inflected turmoil, for not hearing or understanding your PURPOSE?  Just like HE did with Jonah when he went another route, GOD has a way of redirecting us. Wether through pain and misfortune or by our obedience to HIS voice. For true peace, joy and fulfillment we must do what GOD created us to do and stay on the path of PURPOSE, that one day we also can say like Jesus said on the cross...IT IS FINISHED...!!! Be BLESSED MY FRIENDS AND STAY TUNED TO MY NEXT GOD INSPIRED BLOG.

Prioritizing

      How do you PRIORITIZE when life seems to keep disappointing you? When people come in your life and take a piece of you and leave you all alone? How do you redirect the pain of lose? Things you thought would be forever that only lasted for a season.  I say you started making choices that fulfill your purpose and destiny.  Life is filled with so many distractions and people without vision and understanding of their purpose, that if you are not careful, they can make your life seem just as empty. Jesus made His decisions based on His purpose. The purpose HE came to fulfill here on earth. HE was never moved or surprised when others turn their back and denied HIM or left HIM.  Most people are only consumed with self (there issues and problems), not realizing that when you help others GOD is obligated to help you (remember to focus on your PROMISE and not the problems of life) When you understand your purpose you know why people do what they do, or why your finances maybe under attack and any other situation that plagues your life.  So when they leave you or deceive you and hurt you. Don’t let the pain take you out the race. Truthfully they are the ones really hurting.   It's not for you to dislike them or talk negatively about them, but to pray that God enlightens them to HIS purpose. When people are purpose drive they look at life with a different pair of lenses.  Money, relationships and past scares never effect or stop them from their Purpose.  So let purpose (vision) be the guide, that leads you to those people you let into your heart.  The bible says that people perish for the lack of knowledge (vision) which is attached to your purpose. You never want to give the wrong people to much of your time and emotions.  It could delay or derail you from it. So as you make your life plan to deal with the challenges of this world, make sure you allow GODS purpose for your life to determine your PRIORITIES.
Be BLESSED my friends and stay tuned for my next GOD inspired blog.

Being Broken

      Today I had another demeaning attack against my FAITH; another humiliating moment; a moment of pruning. To GOD be the GLORY where all BLESSINGS FLOW; I'm determined to get EVERYTHING GOD has for me; I won't murmur or complain about these fiery trials. I'm reminded of JESUS’ crucifixion…He told GOD the FATHER to forgive those that had defamed HIS name; to forgive those who have condemned HIM to die, even though HE knew it would be unto death. HIS reason was that they “knew not what they do”. If they REALLY knew that HE was their SAVIOR they wouldn't have ever spoke Ill of HIM. Another scripture came to mind, to love and pray for those that persecute you (Matt.5:44Amp); Also, I love this next verse, (Luke 6:27-28 Amp) where HE says to treat well (do good to, act nobly toward) those who detest you and pursue you with hatred, and pronounce BLESSINGS (GOD FAVOR) upon those who abuse you (who revile, reproach, disparage, and high-handedly misuse you). WOW, that’s POWERFUL. Why in the world would the LORD say these things concerning your enemies? The author asked the question, why should GOD reward you if you only love the people that love you? Basically, are you showing HIM that you’re HIS son/daughter if you only pray and wish good for those that do the same for you? Jesus was literally broken and beat to pieces for us to LIVE (not to get what we deserve), so if we are going to Reign with HIM we must suffer with him; WE HAVE TO BE BROKEN BREAD AND POURD WINE. We can never be OVERCOMERS if we never have anything to overcome. We all have different experiences, different crushing's, per se, but we all must be broken and crushed(Christ Like). I don't know about you but I know I'm right where HE wants me to be. Our prayer must be, send me LORD, use me and find me worthy of YOUR best! Whatever it takes for my perfection, I'm willing to walk that walk and embrace the breaking; I know HE is with me know matter what.  I thank the Lord for the new ideas being birthed out of my crushing and for showing me how to carry them out.
     Be BLESSED my friends and stay tuned for my next GOD inspired blog of the day.