Broken Hearts

The world is filled with people going through every day life functions with BROKEN HEARTS. They have BROKEN HEARTS from disappointments, BROKEN HEARTS from BETRAYAL and BROKEN HEARTS from ABUSE...ect..! The seriousness in the matter is that most people don't even realize there HEART Is BROKEN. They feel healed set free and delivered. They figure they have moved on or have moved passed whatever it was that had broken them. Why is that you might ask? It may be because, they no longer feel the hurt or at least the pain of it, but does that mean it’s gone? In reality, your HEART could still be broken, unless JESUS HAS REALLY HEALED It. If not, it’s just temporarily until something reminds us or does something that causes us to remember, and then we start getting flash backs of what we went through and what we lost. So then the running begins. The running begins because of the fear or pain we once felt, and the thought of that brokenness, usually outweighs the possibilities of what GOD has placed in OUR life in that moment. We become so paralyzed by those memories that we go right back to hiding, hiding from what could be. Being healed and delivered from something doesn't mean we forget, it just means it doesn't control us anymore (doesn't have the same effects). When We are really HEALD we have freedom to love life and people with no boundaries. We become very optimistic, trusting and BELIEVING that whatever GOD said we can have, WE HAVE. No matter what the situation looks like, we know we will never truly be alone again. We BELIEVE THAT our GOD WILL supply us with ALL our needs (Phil.4:18) So why are so many people operating in life with BROKEN HEARTS? It’s because most cover it up by marrying or getting in relationships that are myths. What are myths? Myth are the fantasies we make up when we feel will complete, because someone may have money, status, or beauty. When truthfully none of that has GODS POWER to HEAL OR COMPLETE us. Some people last months before they are on to the next one and some last for years, never understanding the real issue, but soon as their mate doesn’t add up to the myths or they get reminded of something that hurt them, the signs of that BROKEN HEART re-surface. The problem in situations like this is that people sometimes expect more from their mate than they do GOD. Ladies and gentleman Completeness (PERFECTION) comes from the LORD. Are we really happy alone? Can we honestly say we don't want a mate? Most people are looking and praying everyday for someone to complete them, someone that can make them feel SECURE, and LOVED UNCONDITIONAL. Not understanding that our completeness, security and unconditional LOVE can only come from GOD. Until we TRUELY accept GODS LOVE AND SECURITY, We can never be WHOLE and HEALED from Our BROKEN HEARTS. Therefore, man/woman's imperfect love will never be enough because we haven't TRUELY accepted GOD’S PERFECT LOVE (WHOLENESS) Prov. 4:23 states to guard our HEARTS because out of the HEART flows the issues of life. That’s why it’s important to be fed by the WORD of GOD! So how do our hearts get unbroken? How do we become whole without looking for the approval of others to complete us (which most of us are guilty of)? #1 We have to be in the right ministry (church) that's feeding us GODS WORD of GRACE. That's done by being faithful to bible study's and regular Sunday attendance. #2 We have to forgive ourselves and stay consistent on that GRACE PATH. The bible says not to get weary and faint (run,give up), because in due time and that appointed season we shall reap. #3 WE must be secure in GODS LOVE, and SECURE in HIS IDENTITY. As we step into are WHOLENESS we are identified by HIS GLORY, HIS MAJESTY AND HIS COMPLETENESS. Nothing can harm us. We become bold in are FAITH and can have regular relationships that we add to and not take from. We stop to being abusers (people that hurt people), users (people that take from people) or confusers (people that send mix messages because they are never sure). I challenged you today to accept GOD’S COMPLETENESS AND BE WHOLE and let HIM HEAL your BROKEN HEART...!!! Be blessed and stay tuned for my next GOD inspired blog of the day.